The final concept in our Feminine Power series is...
Power Raising
Aka the things we do to raise our vibration when we're about to do some big boss shit.
It's a feast of mind, body, and soul rituals that allow us to pull energies from the universe, close the door on our old selves, and move into energetic alignment with our desired outcome.
Power raising is life-changing, bridge-burning energy in a sweet little package. And while the following list is simple, it is NOT to be slept on.
01. Praise and Worship
The road to your goals can be as dry as the Sahara desert. Let self-recognition be the water that sustains your journey. External compliments and praise are here to reflect and confirm what you already know. Your voice should be the first voice of praise and admiration showing up in your head, always. This ensures that the ego is well-fed (re: pacified) and you aren't selling yourself short for recognition. No one's asking you to be delusional here, keep your affirmations and praise sessions tightly linked to the truth.
02. The Hype Squad
Your squad is your lifeblood. Surround yourself with humans who'll gas you up, hold you accountable, and remind you of how dope you are. Tackling any kind of life goal is ballsy work. There will be days when defeat feels imminent and the easiest thing to do will be to crawl under the covers and cry. These folks are the ones who will remind you why you started. But if things are looking light in the friendship department, or if you're a cycle-breaker, you might be on your own in this work. Surround yourself with creators and content that are in alignment with what you're doing. The trick is a balance of content that shows more of the pursuit and less of the end goal. This keeps you away from comparative leg traps and firmly anchored in the process.
03. Yep, Boundaries.
The road to our goals has its own challenges, we don't need to pollute it with self-sabotage or other people's bullshit. When going after what you want, you need space, time, and energy. Having clear and firm boundaries gives you all 3. And that includes boundaries with yourself. Saying "no", de-prioritizing everyone else when you're already stretched thin, or resisting the urge to doomscroll when you need rest - that's self-love in action, babes. Tell the people around you what kind of support you need and let them play to their strengths. People aren't mind readers, and some of them have never seen healthy boundaries in action. It's not their responsibility to meet needs that you haven't clearly articulated. Use your words, babes.
👉🏾 Grab my Boundary Workbook here.
04. Pleasure & Play
Pleasure and joy aren't our rewards for reaching our goals; they're the fuel that propels us there.
Here is where we do the things—the really satisfying, selfish ones.
Whether you're spell-casting or are in hot pursuit of a life goal, pleasure is the garden from which you conjure new life. Indulge in your favorite sights, scents, and sounds. Take really good care of yourself. Dance and play freely, sing at the top of your lungs, or luxuriate in a bubble bath with your favorite book. Creative energy is free-flowing. If you need to tap into your creative well or refill your energetic tank, reconnect with your inner child.
05. Spiritual Alignment
This is where we set our intentions, perform our fear-burning and manifestation rituals, engage in spell work, and maintain regular cleansing of our energetic + spiritual bodies and spaces. We pray, meditate, pull tarot cards, swim in the ocean, make crystal grids, roll around in the fuckin' grass—whatever helps us maintain the ethereal connection to our objectives so that we can hear and feel the intuitive hits when they come. When things get rough, these are the rituals we ground ourselves in to keep from backtracking or losing our composure.
And just like that, we’ve journeyed through the complex, messy, and utterly magnificent landscape of feminine power together. From embracing your inner Shapeshifter to unleashing your Dangerous Femme and embodying the Wild Woman, it’s been one hell of a ride. This exploration of Power Raising is the final piece of the puzzle – the everyday magic that keeps your inner fire roaring.
Thank you for walking this path with me. My deepest wish is that this series has sparked something potent within you, reminded you of the force you are, and given you a few more tools to wield your power unapologetically.
P.S. Going after what you want can feel scary as fuck. It's a road chock-full of uncertainty, setbacks, and moments where you just want to quit. But these practices—tending to your mind, body, and soul—they're your lifeline. They're what keep you grounded, aligned, and connected to your inner power. So don't skip them. Do the work, stay true to yourself, and remember, you're capable of really dope shit.
