Sex And Your Human Design Type

Sex And Your Human Design Type

Posted by Alyssia Webb on

Have you ever wondered why you're so good at some things in bed, and so bad at others?

Maybe you're a Generator who always knows how to give a great massage, but struggles to come up with new ideas for foreplay.
Or maybe you're a Manifestor who's always up for a quickie, but has trouble lasting more than a few minutes.
Well, it turns out that your Human Design chart can give you all sorts of insights into your sexuality, from your favorite positions to your biggest turn-ons.
In this blog post, we'll explore the connection between your human design type and sexuality, and I'll give you a few tips some tips on using your type to have more satisfying sex.
Remember, your type is only 1 part of a much bigger picture. When exploring your sexuality through the lens of human design, consider things like, authority and cognition too. 



Manifestors are known for their power, charisma, and ability to get things done. And when it comes to sex, they're no exception.

Manifestors are direct, passionate, and always up for a good time. They know what they want and they're not afraid to ask for it.
In the bedroom, Manifestors are like a force of nature. They're unstoppable and they'll leave you wanting more.
Here are a few tips for getting the most out of sex with a Manifestor:
  • Manifestors are always up for trying new things, so don't be afraid to experiment.
  • Be direct and honest about your needs. Manifestors appreciate it when you tell them what you want.
  • Don't try to control them. Mani’s are independent and they don't like to be told what to do. 
  • Just let go and enjoy the ride!
  • Let them initiate sex.
  • Use foreplay to help them amplify your sacral energy
Power play can be a big turn-on for Manifestors. They can release complete control of their natural initiator woes as a sub or honor their inner dictator as a dom. 
If you have a shy Mani in your life, encourage them to use their voice during foreplay. 
Lick here.
Kiss there.
Bite this.
Spank that.
You get the idea..


Projectors are the guides of the Human Design system. They're here to share their knowledge and wisdom with the world, but they need to wait to be invited to do so. This can be frustrating in the bedroom, but it's important to remember that Projectors are all about the long game.
When it comes to sex, Projectors need to find partners who are willing to take the lead. They're not the type to initiate or be aggressive. Instead, they prefer to let their auras do the talking.
Projectors have a very powerful aura, and they can use it to attract and seduce their partners. When they're feeling good and confident, their aura is irresistible.
If you're a Projector, don't be afraid to let your aura loose in the bedroom. Flirt with your eyes, touch your partner softly, and let them know how much you desire them.
Once you've got your partner's attention, it's time to let them take it from there. They'll know what to do.


Oh so full of life force,
your sexuality is a hurricane, a wildfire, a lightning storm.
When it comes to sexuality, Generators are the powerhouses of the Human Design world. They have an endless supply of energy and umm.."enthusiasm" and they love to share it with others.
In the bedroom, Generators are passionate and playful. They love to experiment and try new things, and they're always up for a good time. Generators are also very generous lovers, and they're usually willing to give more than they receive. 
Because Generators carry strong sacral energy, things like edging and orgasm denial work very well. The slow, almost agonizing torture of this process is enough to fully stimulate the senses and turn them inside out.
If you're lucky enough to be in a relationship with a Generator, here are a few tips for keeping the spark alive:
  • Don't be afraid to get creative. Generators love to try new things in the bedroom, so don't be afraid to experiment.
  • Multi-sensory play is your friend. The more you can build that sacral energy up before releasing, the better.
  • Surprise them. 


Reflectors, the chameleons of the Human Design world, are known for their ability to adapt and blend in. But when it comes to sexuality, Reflectors can be a bit of a mystery.
On the one hand, Reflectors are incredibly sensual and perceptive beings. They have a deep understanding of their own needs and desires, and they're not afraid to explore them. On the other hand, Reflectors can also be hesitant to commit to a particular sexual identity or expression. They're constantly evolving and changing, and their sexuality is no exception.
So, what's a Reflector to do?
Here are a few tips:
  • Don't be afraid to experiment. Reflectors are at their best when they're trying new things and exploring different possibilities. This includes sexuality. So don't be afraid to experiment with different partners, positions, and kinks. You never know what you might like until you try it.
  • Be honest with yourself and your partners. Reflectors are known for their honesty and authenticity. This is especially important when it comes to your sexuality. Be honest with yourself about what you want and need. Be honest with your partners about your boundaries and expectations.
  • Don't be afraid to change your mind. Reflectors are constantly evolving, so it's perfectly normal for your sexuality to change over time. You may find that what you're attracted to today is different from what you were attracted to yesterday. That's okay! Just roll with it and enjoy the ride.
  • Reflectors are able to blend in with any sexual identity or expression. They can be the perfect partner for anyone, regardless of their sexual preferences.
So if you're a Reflector, don't be afraid to embrace your chameleon-like sexuality. Experiment, be honest, and don't be afraid to change your mind.

Up The Ante With Cognition 


  • Inner vision: talk them through your sexual plan so they can visualize themselves there.
  • Feeling: sensory deprivation like a blindfold will help them focus on feeling their way through the experience. 
  • Outer vision: seduce them with sexy outfits, exotic locations and their favorite visual backdrop
  • Smell: fill the space with their favorite scent. Wear their favorite fragrance 
  • Taste: bring food into the experience. Play with flavors and texture. And kissing, lots of kissing. 
  • Touch: textures work well with this style. Soft silks, feathers, etc. The feeling of a beard, soft skin, massage, and sensory deprivation.

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